Though it’s true, I know. There is no way I can understand you truly. I may know, appreciate and empathise but there is no way that I can stay on the same frequency truly and always. I try, but I can’t. If I try harder, I’ll fall over. And next comes the question— do I need to stay on the same frequency in the first place? I feel like I’m not needed to.
So that is why I guess I seem distant. But you can say the same thing about yourself too. Though you don’t try. Not when you can, not when you can’t.